Ok so first, I have some BIG news to share!! ...and for me, this is a big deal 🤯😭 something I have been on the fence about for a while... ok years... For years I have wrestled with the decision of whether or not to send A to daycare/school or to keep him at home. I know, I know...you’re probably thinking...but tons of moms and dads send their kids to preschool... So why is this a big deal? Well, for me it’s a big deal because the last few years I had built up the belief in my mind that since I work from home, the thought of sending him to preschool or daycare meant that I failed . That sending him out of the house meant that I failed to work from home AND be a mom fulltime. ( **Which for the record.... are BOTH fulltime jobs) Any other moms ever felt this?? Someone please tell me I’m not alone in this crazy “ I have to be able to do it ALL ” pressure that we for some reason put on ourselves. I mean...after all HE is my ‘why’ and even thoug...
Have you ever found yourself in a situation or looking back on one where you may have given freely...of your time, your emotions, or even vulnerability but...it didn't feel that it was freely given? Let me break it down in a different way... ...have you ever poured your heart out to, or gone out of your way for someone, perhaps a crush or a new boyfriend/girlfriend but it felt more like it was given without really earning it? Now hear me out ... because I am not saying or suggesting that love should be earned...because it shouldn’t be a give-to-get scenario at all... however ...especially in our societal dating culture today...I have found it to be very common that women (including myself) who were created with an infinite amount of love to give, that sometimes we slip into giving our love freely rather than selectively choosing who we should freely give it too. I recently started working with a coaching program and it has begun some really monumental self study work and...