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Freely Given vs. Given Freely

Have you ever found yourself in a situation or looking back on one where you may have given freely...of your time, your emotions, or even vulnerability but...it didn't feel that it was freely given? Let me break it down in a different way... ...have you ever poured your heart out to, or gone out of your way for someone, perhaps a crush or a new boyfriend/girlfriend but it felt more like it was given without really earning it?   Now hear me out ... because I am not saying or suggesting that love should be earned...because it shouldn’t be a give-to-get scenario at all... however ...especially in our societal dating culture today...I have found it to be very common that women (including myself) who were created with an infinite amount of love to give, that sometimes we slip into giving our love freely rather than selectively choosing who we should freely give it too.  I recently started working with a coaching program and it has begun some really monumental self study work and...

Goals are hard....but not out of reach. 🥅

𝗠𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗵𝗼𝗼𝗱 is hard. ⁣ 𝗦𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗹𝗲 motherhood is harder. ⁣ Add being an 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘂𝗿 & 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗯𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗼𝘄𝗻𝗲𝗿? ⁣ ....Well let’s just say it’s an every changing cocktail of hard 😂⁣ ⁣ - the juggling of dinner, bedtime & housework solo⁣ - the late night client appointments...⁣ - the early morning zoom calls... ⁣ - the daily investing into yourself and personal development...⁣ - the responding to messages while you’re making dinner, standing in line at the store, running baths...or in the bathroom yourself 🚽 (cause lets be real...as moms we take quiet time whenever and wherever we can get it 😂am I right?)⁣ ⁣ - - -⁣ ⁣ A few years back I traded in the temporary security of a 9-5 in order to build a life and lifestyle that had no limitations or schedules. For me this was (in the grand scheme) a small price to pay for more quality time where it matters most. ⁣ I wasn’t a mom yet when I first started in business for myself but boy am I thankful f...